PRIVATE FAMILY COACHING
The same 16 steps. Just your family and Lorena.
The full 4-month, 16-step Cooperation Shift, one-to-one with Lorena and tailored to your family. Twelve private sessions for you, your partner and your kids. For homes that need more than a group.
4 months. 12 private sessions. $8,000 pay in full, or 6 payments of $1,500. Sessions run weekly or every other week.
Lorena Seidel, M.Ed | Emotional Intelligence and Growth Mindset Expert | TEDx Speaker | MasterClass Instructor
SOUNDS FAMILIAR?
You love your kid. And yet...
The yelling, the slammed doors and the daily battles have become normal.
It is not a lack of love. It is a household that has drifted. Rules that bend. Limits that move depending on who is tired. Kids learn fast what works, and right now the loudest reaction wins.
Whatever you accept becomes what your child thinks is acceptable. The bar is too low, and everyone in the house is tripping over it.
Both of your instincts make it worse.
When your child explodes, refuses school or locks you out, you crack down like an Enforcer or back off like an Appeaser. Both fuel the fire. The longer the cycle runs, the harder it is to break.
The Enforcer
You crack down.
The Appeaser
You back off.
The Game Plan Session
Your child has meltdowns or explosive outbursts that take over the evening
Every request turns into a power struggle
Your teen refuses to go to school
Screens are the daily fight, and you keep losing it
Siblings are in constant conflict and you are the referee
You feel like a hostage in your own home, walking on eggshells
You have tried the tips, the books and the programs, and nothing lasts
Your child is already in therapy and you want to know what to do with the other 167 hours
This is for parents of preteens and teens in crisis. Parents who want comfort instead of taking action will not like it here.
Most advice treats the symptom.
A parenting tip will not fix a big problem. An ice pack alone will not fix a broken bone..
Match the support to the intensity, the frequency and the duration of the problem. A rough week needs a small fix. Months of daily blowups need radical action and a real structure.
The Cooperation Shift builds that structure: high standards and high support. Kind and firm. Not punitive. Not permissive. Permissive is the biggest trap there is.
Growth Mindset
Mentor Style Discipline
Unshakable Connection
Emotional Fitness
WHAT PRIVATE COACHING ADDS
Everything in the group program. Plus twelve private sessions.
You work the same 4-month, 16-step Cooperation Shift, but the coaching is one-to-one: your family's real situations, your triggers, your kids. Sessions run weekly or every other week, and your partner and kids join family-style sessions.
➤ 12 private sessions with Lorena
➤ Direct access to Lorena
➤ Family-style sessions, partner and kids
➤ Full curriculum, lifetime access
➤ Protocol Vault, lifetime access
➤ Weekly Mentor Circle, lifetime access
➤ Done-with-you implementation clinics
➤ Caregiver and nanny integration
How It Starts
Book your Game Plan Session. 90 minutes with Lorena.
If you join the private program, we refund your $375 game-plan fee.
Map where you are stuck. Real situations, real triggers, what has and has not worked.
Figure out if the private path fits your family. You'll leave with an actionable plan either way. You can implement on your own or with Lorena. If your challenges are outside of Lorena's expertise, she will send you in the right direction.
COACH, NOT THERAPIST
Therapy is one hour a week. Your child lives with you the other 167.
Lorena is a coach, not a therapist. She does not diagnose or treat. If your child is working with a therapist, a psychiatrist or a school team, good. Keep them. Lorena works on the part nobody else can: how your family runs the other 167 hours, so the progress made in therapy actually holds at home.
Coaching works alongside the professionals in your child's life, never instead of them.
What changes.
Right now
➤ The same fight, every day
➤ Mornings that explode and evenings that end in guilt
➤ You react, then you regret it
➤ Whoever is loudest wins
After the 16 steps
➤ You lead with a plan, and you follow through
➤ You are the calm in the room, even when it is loud
➤ Your child listens because they feel connected and respected, not because they are afraid
➤ A sturdier child, and a parent who knows what to do
YOUR INVESTMENT
Private Family Coaching.
The full 4-month Cooperation Shift, 16 steps, plus 12 private sessions with Lorena, tailored to your family. Sessions run weekly or every other week. Partner and kids join family-style sessions.
Every path starts with a Game Plan Session: 90 minutes, $375. Lorena looks at what is happening in your home and tells you straight whether private coaching is the right level of support - including when it is not
$8,000
PAY IN FULL
One-Time Payment
$1,500
PAYMENT PLAN
6 Months Plan of $1,500
Families Have Already Made the Shift.
YOUR COACH
Lorena Seidel, M.Ed
Lorena Seidel, M.Ed, is an Emotional Intelligence and Growth Mindset Expert and family coach with about 20 years at the intersection of education and emotional intelligence. She started as a Montessori teacher, then worked with parents, and built her method from a master's thesis on growth mindset and emotional intelligence.
Her work is featured in a chapter of David Yeager's book "10 to 25: The Science of Motivating Young People" she is a two time guest instructor on the prestigious platform MasterClass, and she gave the TEDx talk "Why Most Parenting Advice Misses the Point."
Lorena Seidel, M.Ed | Emotional Intelligence and Growth Mindset Expert | TEDx Speaker | MasterClass Instructor
Questions parents ask before they join.
Not sure I can afford this.
There’s a cost to join. But a far higher cost to staying stuck. What is six more months of the “yell–regret” cycle costing your marriage or your child’s confidence? We can’t afford to trial-and-error our way through parenting. Their childhood window is too short, and the stakes are too high. This isn’t a luxury; it’s a legacy investment. You’re not paying for content -you’re investing in a proven behavioral operating system, featured on MasterClass and backed by leading psychologists, designed to replace chaos with clarity and build long-term harmony and emotional fitness in your family.
Is there a payment plan?
Yes, we offer flexible terms through Klarna/Affirm to ensure the framework is accessible to committed families.
We're so busy. How much time does this take?
This program is designed for maximum ROI on your time. We focus on high-leverage shifts that eliminate the hours currently lost to power struggles, outbursts, and meltdowns. Rest assured, we prioritize working smarter, not harder; this curriculum is tailor-made for high-capacity, busy families. While implementation is required for transformation, the commitment is lean: set aside 90 minutes a week for advisory sessions and 5–10 minutes daily to communicate the vision and share protocols with your child/teen. Most parents find they "reclaim" five or more hours of peace per week.
What if my partner isn't on board?
Most of my successful clients started alone. You don’t need an unanimous vote to change the house temperature. When you stop being the 'Lone Cheerleader' and become the Facilitator, the dynamic must shift. Your partner benefits from a regulated you without ever reading a book. Results usually change their tune.
The "I Don’t Have Time" Objection
You aren’t adding a chore; you’re installing an operating system. Right now, you lose 10+ hours a week to 'behavior recovery' - yelling, guilt, and chaos. This program buys your time back. We don't do 'extra' work; we do daily work differently so you can enjoy your evening instead of collapsing into it.
"My Child/Teen is Extra Difficult"
The framework isn't a 'remote control' for your child; it’s a thermostat for your home. We focus on the Root Cause. Whether your kid is 4 or 16, they respond to your leadership. We don’t give plans for 'easy' kids; we give strategies for 'hard' moments that actually move the needle. Or maybe you're unsure if your family will fully engage. With my experience facilitating EQ activities with thousands of students and teachers, I can promise your family will love it!
"I’ve Failed Before"
Books, scripts, and charts are 'Bandaids' - they don't account for your nervous system. This program is different because we deal with Access. We rewire the 'how' so you can access patience while your kid is screaming. This isn't about perfection; it’s about the Skilled Do-Over. We don't quit; we troubleshoot. If you're concerned about sticking with it. Our weekly coaching sessions keep everyone on track, motivated, and inspired. You won't fall behind, I'll make sure of it.
"Wait Until..." (Bad Timing)
If you wait for a 'calm season' to build a 'calm home,' you'll wait forever. You don't learn to sail on a pond; you learn in the waves. The tantrums and stress are the classroom. Start now, in the mess, to be the leader who is 'unshakeable' by summer.
