tHE WHITE-GLOVE IN-HOME INTENSIVE
When your home hits the tipping point, you need a structured reset.
A private, total-immersion weekend where Lorena steps into your home, side-by-side with your family, to install the system and embed your new standards, boundaries and routines in real time.
3.5 days, Thursday evening to Sunday, then 90 days of support. $20,000.
Lorena Seidel, M.Ed | Emotional Intelligence and Growth Mindset Expert | TEDx Speaker | MasterClass Instructor
THE TIPPING POINT
Real, lasting change requires a structured reset.
When home dynamics reach a critical tipping point, tips and talks are not enough. The yelling, the slammed doors and the daily battles have become the normal.
It is not a lack of love. It is a household that has drifted. Rules that bend. Limits that move depending on who is tired. Kids learn fast what works, and right now the loudest reaction wins.
Both of your instincts make it worse.
When your child explodes, refuses school or locks you out, you crack down like an Enforcer or back off like an Appeaser. Both fuel the fire. The longer the cycle runs, the harder it is to break.
The Enforcer
You crack down.
The Appeaser
You back off.
Tired of putting out the same fires all the time?
The yelling, the power struggles and the shutdowns have become normal in your home
You have tried the tips, the books and the programs, and nothing lasts
The rules bend, the limits move, and your child knows exactly which ones to push
You feel like a hostage in your own home, walking on eggshells
You want someone beside you while it is happening, not just telling you what to do afterward
You are ready to put in the work as a family and commit to new standards
This is a high-level intervention for families seeking an immersive reset. Families who want comfort instead of a plan will not like it here.
Most advice treats the symptom.
A parenting tip will not fix a big problem. An ice pack alone will not fix a broken bone..
Match the support to the intensity, the frequency and the duration of the problem. A rough week needs a small fix. Months of daily blowups need radical action and a real structure.
The Cooperation Shift™ builds an unsinkable mindset through high standards and high support. It moves parents away from the permissive trap and punitive battles toward a kind, firm structure grounded in connection before correction and skill-building.
THE WHITE-GLOVE IN-HOME INTENSIVE EXPERIENCE
The 3.5-Day Private In-Home Immersion
Thursday evening to Sunday. In your home.
Lorena steps into your home, side-by-side with your family, to actively install The Cooperation Shift™ system and embed your new standards, boundaries and routines in real time. She moves through your family's actual daily rhythm with you, from morning routines and meal times to evening wind-downs and screen transitions. Here is how the days run:
DAY 1: THURSDAY
Baseline and observation
➤ After-school routines, 4 to 6 PM
➤ Shared dinner, 6 to 7:30 PM
➤ Bedtime observation, 7:30 to 9 PM
DAY 2: FRIDAY
Strategy and kids' voice
➤ Morning routine observation, 6 to 8:30 AM
➤ Parent Strategy Session while the kids are at school, 9 AM to 2:30 PM
➤ Protocol 1: Family Circle and Homelife Assessment, 4:30 to 6 PM
DAY 3: SATURDAY
Culture and connection
➤ Protocol 2: Family Standards, 10 AM
➤ Protocol 3: Screens, Homework and Routines, 11:30 AM
➤ Experiential family outing, 2 to 5 PM
➤ Protocol 4: Sibling Dynamics, 6:30 PM
DAY 4: SUNDAY
Emotional fitness and hand-off
➤ Protocol 5: Emotional Fitness and Unsinkable Mindset, 10 to 11:30 AM
➤ Closing Ceremony and Hand-Off, 12 to 1 PM
➤ Shift to virtual tracking
Live moments, guided and stabilized as they happen.
AFTER THE WEEKEND
90-Day Implementation & Momentum Support
An intensive creates the breakthrough, but follow-through secures the transformation. Over the 3 months following your weekend together, Lorena provides continuous support:
Mini check-ins
Mini check-ins, about 15 minutes each, to review wins, address emerging friction, adjust protocols, and make sure you never feel stranded during implementation.
Weekly family session
A weekly structured session for the whole family, where Lorena guides your family meeting, helping maintain accountability, reinforce new habits, and keep communication healthy.
THE 90-DAY ARC
Reset. Implement. Integrate.
DAY 1 - 3
Reset
The in-home Intensive interrupts the old patterns immediately.
FIRST 30 DAYS
Implement
Mini check-ins of about 15 minutes each establish clear home guidelines and routines.
THROUGH 30 DAYS
Integrate
Lorena steps back into an advisory role. You and your kids run the meetings and routines on your own, with a weekly structured session for the whole family.
What you take home.
Personalized Family Blueprint
Your written family guidelines covering screens, chores, communication and troubleshooting.
Cooperation Shift in a Box
Visual tools, charts, logical consequences and tracking systems installed in your home.
Private Parent Access
A voice and text support channel for parents between daily sessions, for real-time help when moments arise.
90-Day Progress Reviews
30, 60 and 90-day check-ins to review growth and celebrate wins.
THE GOAL
The balance of authority in your home, restored.
By the end of this process, you will have a fully functioning, sustainable system where your child or teen experiences clear, kind boundaries, and you feel confident, capable and connected as parents.
What changes.
Right now
➤ The same fight, every day
➤ You react, then you regret it
➤ Whoever is loudest wins
➤ Standards that move depending on who is tired
After the 16 steps
➤ New standards, boundaries and routines, built into your actual day
➤ A system that works without Lorena in the room
➤ Authority restored, with clear, kind boundaries
➤ Parents who feel confident, capable and connected
COACH, NOT THERAPIST
Therapy is one hour a week. Your child lives with you the other 167.
Lorena is a coach, not a therapist. She does not diagnose or treat. If your child is working with a therapist, a psychiatrist or a school team, good. Keep them. Lorena works on the part nobody else can: how your family runs the other 167 hours, so the progress made in therapy actually holds at home.
Coaching works alongside the professionals in your child's life, never instead of them.
YOUR INVESMENT
The White-Glove In-Home Intensive.
3.5-day private in-home immersion, Thursday evening to Sunday. 90-day Implementation & Momentum Support with mini check-ins (about 15 minutes each) and a weekly structured family session.
Think this level of intervention is the right next step? Start with a Game Plan Session and Lorena will talk you through scheduling the Thursday-to-Sunday block.
Strictly limited to 2 families per quarter to maintain direct access and personal attention.
Travel within 90 miles of Ridgefield, CT is included. For families farther away, Lorena's team arranges travel and accommodations, billed at cost and confirmed with your booking.
$20,000
or 3 MONTHLY PAYMENTS of $7,000
Families Have Already Made the Shift.
YOUR COACH
Lorena Seidel, M.Ed
Lorena Seidel, M.Ed, is an Emotional Intelligence and Growth Mindset Expert and family coach with about 20 years at the intersection of education and emotional intelligence. She started as a Montessori teacher, then worked with parents, and built her method from a master's thesis on growth mindset and emotional intelligence.
Her work is featured in a chapter of David Yeager's book "10 to 25: The Science of Motivating Young People" she is a two time guest instructor on the prestigious platform MasterClass, and she gave the TEDx talk "Why Most Parenting Advice Misses the Point."
Lorena Seidel, M.Ed | Emotional Intelligence and Growth Mindset Expert | TEDx Speaker | MasterClass Instructor
Questions parents ask before they join.
Not sure I can afford this.
There’s a cost to join. But a far higher cost to staying stuck. What is six more months of the “yell–regret” cycle costing your marriage or your child’s confidence? We can’t afford to trial-and-error our way through parenting. Their childhood window is too short, and the stakes are too high. This isn’t a luxury; it’s a legacy investment. You’re not paying for content -you’re investing in a proven behavioral operating system, featured on MasterClass and backed by leading psychologists, designed to replace chaos with clarity and build long-term harmony and emotional fitness in your family.
Is there a payment plan?
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We're so busy. How much time does this take?
This program is designed for maximum ROI on your time. We focus on high-leverage shifts that eliminate the hours currently lost to power struggles, outbursts, and meltdowns. Rest assured, we prioritize working smarter, not harder; this curriculum is tailor-made for high-capacity, busy families. While implementation is required for transformation, the commitment is lean: set aside 90 minutes a week for advisory sessions and 5–10 minutes daily to communicate the vision and share protocols with your child/teen. Most parents find they "reclaim" five or more hours of peace per week.
What if my partner isn't on board?
Most of my successful clients started alone. You don’t need an unanimous vote to change the house temperature. When you stop being the 'Lone Cheerleader' and become the Facilitator, the dynamic must shift. Your partner benefits from a regulated you without ever reading a book. Results usually change their tune.
The "I Don’t Have Time" Objection
You aren’t adding a chore; you’re installing an operating system. Right now, you lose 10+ hours a week to 'behavior recovery' - yelling, guilt, and chaos. This program buys your time back. We don't do 'extra' work; we do daily work differently so you can enjoy your evening instead of collapsing into it.
"My Child/Teen is Extra Difficult"
The framework isn't a 'remote control' for your child; it’s a thermostat for your home. We focus on the Root Cause. Whether your kid is 4 or 16, they respond to your leadership. We don’t give plans for 'easy' kids; we give strategies for 'hard' moments that actually move the needle. Or maybe you're unsure if your family will fully engage. With my experience facilitating EQ activities with thousands of students and teachers, I can promise your family will love it!
"I’ve Failed Before"
Books, scripts, and charts are 'Bandaids' - they don't account for your nervous system. This program is different because we deal with Access. We rewire the 'how' so you can access patience while your kid is screaming. This isn't about perfection; it’s about the Skilled Do-Over. We don't quit; we troubleshoot. If you're concerned about sticking with it. Our weekly coaching sessions keep everyone on track, motivated, and inspired. You won't fall behind, I'll make sure of it.
"Wait Until..." (Bad Timing)
If you wait for a 'calm season' to build a 'calm home,' you'll wait forever. You don't learn to sail on a pond; you learn in the waves. The tantrums and stress are the classroom. Start now, in the mess, to be the leader who is 'unshakeable' by summer.
