Lorena Seidel, parenting coach and founder of The Cooperation Shift

THE COOPERATION SHIFT: 4 MONTHS, 16 STEPS

Your teen is running the house. It stops when you change the system.

Meltdowns. Defiance. School refusal. Screens. Shutdowns that win every fight. You do not need another tip. You need a structure that matches the size of the problem.

Next cohort starts Thursday, January 7, 2027. $3,500. Early enrollment closes November 15.

Lorena Seidel, M.Ed  |  Emotional Intelligence and Growth Mindset Expert  |  TEDx Speaker  |  MasterClass Instructor

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SOUNDS FAMILIAR?

You love your kid. And yet...

The yelling, the slammed doors and the daily battles have become normal.

It is not a lack of love. It is a household that has drifted. Rules that bend. Limits that move depending on who is tired. Kids learn fast what works, and right now the loudest reaction wins.

Whatever you accept becomes what your child thinks is acceptable. The bar is too low, and everyone in the house is tripping over it.

Both of your instincts make it worse.

When your child explodes, refuses school or locks you out, you crack down like an Enforcer or back off like an Appeaser. Both fuel the fire. The longer the cycle runs, the harder it is to break.

The Enforcer

You crack down.

The Appeaser

You back off.

Tired of putting out the same fires all the time?

Your child has meltdowns or explosive outbursts that take over the evening

Every request turns into a power struggle

Your teen refuses to go to school

Screens are the daily fight, and you keep losing it

Siblings are in constant conflict and you are the referee

You feel like a hostage in your own home, walking on eggshells

You have tried the tips, the books and the programs, and nothing lasts

Your child is already in therapy and you want to know what to do with the other 167 hours

This is for parents of preteens and teens in crisis. Parents who want comfort instead of taking action will not like it here.

Most advice treats the symptom.

A parenting tip will not fix a big problem. An ice pack alone will not fix a broken bone..

Match the support to the intensity, the frequency and the duration of the problem. A rough week needs a small fix. Months of daily blowups need radical action and a real structure.

The Cooperation Shift™ builds an unsinkable mindset through high standards and high support. It moves parents away from the permissive trap and punitive battles toward a kind, firm structure grounded in connection before correction and skill-building.

Growth Mindset

Mentor Style Discipline

Unshakable Connection

Emotional Fitness

COACH, NOT THERAPIST

Therapy is one hour a week. Your child lives with you the other 167.

Lorena is a coach, not a therapist. She does not diagnose or treat. If your child is working with a therapist, a psychiatrist or a school team, good. Keep them. Lorena works on the part nobody else can: how your family runs the other 167 hours, so the progress made in therapy actually holds at home.

Coaching works alongside the professionals in your child's life, never instead of them.

Your 16 steps from parenting to family leadership.

Four months. A predictable, repeatable path. Not a watch-and-wonder course.

PHASE 0

The Game Plan

We identify your triggers, change your defaults and install a game plan that replaces the survival zone with intentional leadership.

➤ The Strategic Audit

➤ 90-Day Game Plan

➤ Do-Over Protocol

PHASE 1

The Mindset Reset

Master the internal shift from reactive parent to calm, confident leader. And install the "unsinkable mindset" operating system in your child.

➤ Keep Your Cool

➤ Emotional First Aid

➤ Emotional Fitness

PHASE 2

Mentor Style Discipline

Discover how to discipline without yelling, threatening or giving in.

➤ Kind & Firm Mentor

➤ Guidelines and Limits

➤ Effective Follow-Through

➤ Misbehavior Decoder

PHASE 3

Unshakable Connection

Heal, repair and strengthen the bonds with your child, co-parent and between siblings. Turn conflict into connection.

➤ Gain Respect & Cooperation

➤ Sibling Dynamic Upgrade

➤ Connection Upgrade

PHASE 4

Emotional Fitness

Install the daily habits that make your children sturdier: ready for anxiety, big feelings and hard situations with an unshakable sense of self.

➤ Self-Regulated Family

➤ Future-Ready Kids & Teens

➤ Sustainable Success

A home where everyone thrives

INSIDE THE PROGRAM

You apply it. You get coached. You adjust.

Implementation clinics and done-with-you sessions are where we work through every protocol together and troubleshoot your family's real dynamics, live.

➤ Full 16-step Cooperation Shift curriculum

➤ Implementation Vault: 8 protocols for your hardest moments, homework included

➤ Weekly Mentor Circle group coaching calls with Lorena

➤ Done-with-you implementation clinics

➤ 3 private sessions with Lorena

➤ Caregiver and nanny integration

Protocol

Protocols for your hardest moments.

PROTOCOL 1

End Tantrums and Defiance

The De-Escalation Protocol

PROTOCOL 2

Solve Sibling Rivalry

The Conflict Mediation Protocol

PROTOCOL 3

Win the Screen-Time Battle

The Screentime Protocol

PROTOCOL 4

Master the Bedtime Routine

The Rest and Recovery Protocol

PROTOCOL 5

End Homework Hassles

The Academic Autonomy Protocol

PROTOCOL 6

End the Chore War

The Contribution Protocol

PROTOCOL 7

Stress-Free Mealtimes

The Nutritional Connection Protocol

PROTOCOL 8

Build Your Family Circle

The Family Meeting Protocol

What changes.

Right now

➤ The same fight, every day

➤ Mornings that explode and evenings that end in guilt

➤ You react, then you regret it

➤ Whoever is loudest wins

After the 16 steps

➤ You lead with a plan, and you follow through

➤ You are the calm in the room, even when it is loud

➤ Your child listens because they feel connected and respected, not because they are afraid

➤ A sturdier child, and a parent who knows what to do

JANUARY COHORT

Starts Thursday, January 7, 2027.

The full 4-month Cooperation Shift, 16 steps, weekly group coaching and 3 private sessions with Lorena. Early enrollment closes November 15.

Early enrollment bonus: enroll by November 15 and get a troubleshooting session with your tween or teen.

$3,500

PAY IN FULL

✔ Full Cooperation Shift curriculum, 16 steps

✔ Implementation Vault: protocols and homework for your hardest moments

✔ Weekly Mentor Circle group calls

✔ Done-with-you implementation clinics

✔ 3 private sessions with Lorena

✔ Caregiver and nanny integration

✔ Early enrollment bonus: a troubleshooting

session with your tween or teen.

$975

PAYMENT PLAN (4 MONTHS)

✔ Full Cooperation Shift curriculum, 16 steps

✔ Implementation Vault: protocols and homework for your hardest moments

✔ Weekly Mentor Circle group calls

✔ Done-with-you implementation clinics

✔ 3 private sessions with Lorena

✔ Caregiver and nanny integration

4 MONTHS PLAN FOR 975

Families Have Already Made the Shift.

Lorena Seidel, parenting coach and founder of The Cooperation Shift

YOUR COACH

Lorena Seidel, M.Ed

Lorena Seidel, M.Ed, is an Emotional Intelligence and Growth Mindset Expert and family coach with about 20 years at the intersection of education and emotional intelligence. She started as a Montessori teacher, then worked with parents, and built her method from a master's thesis on growth mindset and emotional intelligence.

Her work is featured in a chapter of David Yeager's book "10 to 25: The Science of Motivating Young People" she is a two time guest instructor on the prestigious platform MasterClass, and she gave the TEDx talk "Why Most Parenting Advice Misses the Point."

Lorena Seidel, M.Ed  |  Emotional Intelligence and Growth Mindset Expert  |  TEDx Speaker  |  MasterClass Instructor

Questions Parents Ask Before They Join.

Not sure I can afford this.

There’s a cost to join. But a far higher cost to staying stuck. What is six more months of the “yell–regret” cycle costing your marriage or your child’s confidence? We can’t afford to trial-and-error our way through parenting. Their childhood window is too short, and the stakes are too high. This isn’t a luxury; it’s a legacy investment. You’re not paying for content -you’re investing in a proven behavioral operating system, featured on MasterClass and backed by leading psychologists, designed to replace chaos with clarity and build long-term harmony and emotional fitness in your family.

Is there a payment plan?

Yes, we offer flexible terms through Klarna/Affirm to ensure the framework is accessible to committed families.

We're so busy. How much time does this take?

This program is designed for maximum ROI on your time. We focus on high-leverage shifts that eliminate the hours currently lost to power struggles, outbursts, and meltdowns. Rest assured, we prioritize working smarter, not harder; this curriculum is tailor-made for high-capacity, busy families. While implementation is required for transformation, the commitment is lean: set aside 90 minutes a week for advisory sessions and 5–10 minutes daily to communicate the vision and share protocols with your child/teen. Most parents find they "reclaim" five or more hours of peace per week.

What if my partner isn't on board?

Most of my successful clients started alone. You don’t need an unanimous vote to change the house temperature. When you stop being the 'Lone Cheerleader' and become the Facilitator, the dynamic must shift. Your partner benefits from a regulated you without ever reading a book. Results usually change their tune.

The "I Don’t Have Time" Objection

You aren’t adding a chore; you’re installing an operating system. Right now, you lose 10+ hours a week to 'behavior recovery' - yelling, guilt, and chaos. This program buys your time back. We don't do 'extra' work; we do daily work differently so you can enjoy your evening instead of collapsing into it.

"My Child/Teen is Extra Difficult"

The framework isn't a 'remote control' for your child; it’s a thermostat for your home. We focus on the Root Cause. Whether your kid is 4 or 16, they respond to your leadership. We don’t give plans for 'easy' kids; we give strategies for 'hard' moments that actually move the needle. Or maybe you're unsure if your family will fully engage. With my experience facilitating EQ activities with thousands of students and teachers, I can promise your family will love it!

"I’ve Failed Before"

Books, scripts, and charts are 'Bandaids' - they don't account for your nervous system. This program is different because we deal with Access. We rewire the 'how' so you can access patience while your kid is screaming. This isn't about perfection; it’s about the Skilled Do-Over. We don't quit; we troubleshoot. If you're concerned about sticking with it. Our weekly coaching sessions keep everyone on track, motivated, and inspired. You won't fall behind, I'll make sure of it.

"Wait Until..." (Bad Timing)

If you wait for a 'calm season' to build a 'calm home,' you'll wait forever. You don't learn to sail on a pond; you learn in the waves. The tantrums and stress are the classroom. Start now, in the mess, to be the leader who is 'unshakeable' by summer.

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Imagine going to bed tonight proud of how you parented today.

Ready to end the crisis and replace the daily battles with real cooperation?

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